Guys,
Setting aside the fact that your first e-mail to a woman is, notwithstanding my last tip for you, in all statistical probability a cut-and-paste form message, you've got to "set the stage" before you ask a woman to get a drink.
Face it, some people aren't completely comfortable with the online dating thing in the first place. And in the second place, asking somebody online to meet you for drinks isn't like asking somebody you've just met in a club if you can buy them a drink.
So basically, in your first e-mail, especially if you don't do much more than to advert to the fact that you've got a profile up, you probably shouldn't close with "let's get a drink sometime". Rather, let them know you exist, hopefully your e-mail and profile will make them feel attraction to you, and THEN you can ask them to get a drink. In that order.
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