Wednesday, December 06, 2006

Tip for Men #2: Winks and Hotlisting

Sorry guys, but these just don't work in most cases.

If the girl is really attractive, she's getting new e-mails every day. More from old guys go into her filtered folder. And then loads of other guys wink at her or put her on their hotlist, hoping she'll see them. Do you really think she has time to go through all that stuff? A winking guy is a needle in a stack of needles.

Look, I sympathise if you don't have the cash to become a paying member. When I was a student living on loans, I didn't have the cash either. But if you're a non-paying male member, chances are you're just wasting your time anyway.

Unfortunately, not having money closes a lot of doors, and (for guys) one of those doors is online dating. Look at it sort of like going to Blockbuster. If you don't have any money on you, you can still go inside and browse. But you can't really participate, so what's the point?

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