Ladies, a significant minority (maybe 15 per cent) of you only tick the "Long-Term Relationship" box when Nerve asks you what you're looking for.
For guys, that's an instant turn-off. You don't have to present yourself as a total freak or party-girl, but who wants to go on a first date with somebody when you know they're just sitting there wondering what your kids together would look like?
Basically you might as well be saying "I'd like to model my life off of Gweneth Paltrow's life: meet the most vanilla guy on the planet, get serious with him way too quickly, and then settle down to a tedious life even quicker."
It's a DRAG....
The only guys you'll attract with that are the ones who are "LTR only" seekers, which you know is a turn-off, because in guys, it comes across as needy and/or desperate.
And, moreover, it's probably not very successful, is it? Looking for a relationship is, I believe, probably the most effective way to prevent yourself from finding and starting one.
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